[TCP]: TCP_DEFER_ACCEPT updates - process as established

Change TCP_DEFER_ACCEPT implementation so that it transitions a
connection to ESTABLISHED after handshake is complete instead of
leaving it in SYN-RECV until some data arrvies. Place connection in
accept queue when first data packet arrives from slow path.

Benefits:
  - established connection is now reset if it never makes it
   to the accept queue

 - diagnostic state of established matches with the packet traces
   showing completed handshake

 - TCP_DEFER_ACCEPT timeouts are expressed in seconds and can now be
   enforced with reasonable accuracy instead of rounding up to next
   exponential back-off of syn-ack retry.

Signed-off-by: Patrick McManus <mcmanus@ducksong.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>
diff --git a/include/net/tcp.h b/include/net/tcp.h
index 847e163..67cc395 100644
--- a/include/net/tcp.h
+++ b/include/net/tcp.h
@@ -139,6 +139,7 @@
 #define MAX_TCP_KEEPINTVL	32767
 #define MAX_TCP_KEEPCNT		127
 #define MAX_TCP_SYNCNT		127
+#define MAX_TCP_ACCEPT_DEFERRED 65535
 
 #define TCP_SYNQ_INTERVAL	(HZ/5)	/* Period of SYNACK timer */